I'm fallin for this guy?

Im a guy and I've never ever been attracted to a guy. Well, there's this really really good looking guy I've been sittin near and hangin out with (studyin and just going places together) from college. He's 17 (bout to turn 18) and I'm 23 (bout to turn 24). He is gay, he told me.. he's girly (yet a lil guyish). I'm so attracted to him, I cant help it. We've started riding together during days when we get out at the same time. He tells me how much he likes my truck and stuff, I feel like he may like me but then theres a guy I think he likes. It sucks, im really down about it. I want him to realize that Im attracted to him (not just because of looks) and I want to take him out on a date. When I look in his eyes, i just want to tell him how i feel. It sucks, im worried he wont hang out anymore, if i tell him how i feel...cause he told me that i was a very good friend. but Id even come out to my parents and bring him home cause i know my parents would love him to death. he comes over a lot to my place, when he stays over we sleep in the same bed. my friends even think he's a cool gay guy and my best friends know i have a thing for him. what should I do? what do i say to this guy? im scared that he'll tell me he only wants to be my friend. i never thought id like guy ever, i always use to talk **** about gays and s.... now i cant even think about liking someone else right now.